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One NRI wife calls home for help every 8 hours

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At least one woman married to an NRI calls home every 8 hours seeking help to return after being deserted by her husband.
Complaints received by MEA show that in the 1,064 days between Jan 2015 and Nov 2017, the ministry received 3,328 such complaints.
Most of the women are originally from Punjab and Andhra-Telangana followed by Gujarat

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On average, at least one woman married to an NRI calls home every eight hours seeking help to return
after being deserted by her husband or because of reasons like ill-treatment and physical torture.
Complaints received by the ministry of external affairs (MEA) show that in the 1,064 days between
January 1, 2015, and November 30, 2017, the MEA received 3,328 such complaints — an average of more than
three calls a day or one every eight hours.
Most of the women are originally from Punjab and Andhra-Telangana followed by Gujarat, say, lawyers,
activists, and people working in Indian missions abroad. The National Institute of Public Cooperation and
Child Development, in its study on deserted women some years ago, also confirms this fact.
‘Most dowry complaints from Andhra-Telangana’

Aarthi Rao worked with the Indian embassy in Washington DC for 16 years, six of which were as a
community development officer dealing with such cases.
“Most women,” she said “were from Andhra Pradesh (including Telangana), where the dowry system is still strong
. The boys went to India to please their parents and married someone, but had no intentions of
living with them once they returned.”
Aarthi, who later served as adviser to the MEA, said she received a lot of complaints from West Asian
countries during her Delhi stint.
n one complaint that the MEA received, Shazia (name changed) said she was stuck in Bahrain as her
husband had destroyed her visa document and was preventing her from making calls.
The erstwhile Overseas Indian Affairs Ministry, now merged with MEA, had introduced a scheme for such
women in 2007. The MEA now addresses the issue through its grievance redressal portal, MADAD. Besides,
all missions also receive complaints from women and help them both financially and legally.
Not all complaints go to the ministry. Chennai-based lawyer Sudha Ramalingam says the majority are from
West Asian countries, the US and Canada. “Just six weeks ago, there was a man working with Qatar
Airlines harassing his wife. She reached out to me after great difficulty and we’ve just managed to get
her separated from her husband,” she said.
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While Ramalingam said there was “no one solution” to the problem, sociologist Samata Deshmane
attributed it to Indian parents’ “obsession” with acertain status associated with NRI grooms.

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